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这是blackeye帮我从“All cats have asperger syndrome”这本书里摘录下来的文字，因为她知道我喜欢猫，谢谢blackeye
我家那两个AS目前睡得正香呢。
The first signs of Asperger Syndrome are usually picked up very young.
An Asperger child looks at the world in his own unique way.
He likes to be near those he loves, but doesn't want them to hold him, preferring squishy places to a hug.
Instead of coming to people for comfort, he may be overly attached to a toy or a pet.
It's possible he is extra adventurous with no sense of danger, and he uses up some of his nine lives all too quickly.
An Asperger child often has exceptionally good hearing, and loud sounds and sudden movements may scare him.
His other senses can be heightened too, such as touch and smell.
Yet things that bother other people may not bother him.
He's often fussy about what he eats, and wants the same food presented in the same way, day after day.
He isn't interested in the things other kids his age do.
And when he's forced to mix, he doesn't know how.
Other kids make friends, but don't invite him to play, and he may be bullied.
Sometimes his parents feel sad, wondering why they can't understand their own child, and they can become very protective.
The Asperger child may feel sad too.
And he may become a loner caught up in a world of his own, where small things fascinate him for hours, and he can do the same thing over and over again without getting bored.
When things get too much for him, he may tantrum.
Sometimes his relatives think they could bring him up better than his parents can.
His vocabulary may be very advanced, but then he gets little words all mixed up, or misunderstands what people say.
When people talk to him he may refuse to look at them.
Yet when HE talks, he goes on and on about the same topic, and bores everyone silly.
Then he says something that makes them stop and think, and they marvel at his bright, intelligent mind.
In many ways his thinking is far ahead of his peers.
And he seeks answers in places others don't think to look, or invents new ways to do old things.
People may be astounded by how far he is prepared to go to test his latest theory, and some will say he's a little genius.
Daily rituals comfort him, and he likes a good routine, and gets worried if the schedule is changed.
Often an Asperger child has a great sense of humour, but he doesn't always think about what he is saying, and those around him may cringe with embarrassment.
And he is honest, which is great of course, but sometimes he's too honest.
Yet when he tries to tell a lie, he's not very good at it.
An Asperger child may be very open to all people, regardless of age or size or species, and he may choose friends others wouldn't have thought he would like.
But as he grows older he senses that he is different from everyone else and feels as if he belongs on a different planet like an outsider looking into a world he never truly understands.
Yet with his unique perspective on life, his eye for detail, and his amazing powers of concentration, many an Asperger child has reached the top of his chosen field.
Sure, he may need a little help following fashionable trends, but don't forget, everyone is different in his own way and there is a little bit of Asperger in us all.
So an Asperger child is just like any other child.
He needs love and encouragement, the occasional bit of advice, space to be himself, and then everyone can sit back and enjoy the unique individual he becomes.
第一个阿斯伯格症状通常能在很早的时候就被发现，阿斯伯格症的孩子用他独特的方式来看这个世界。
他喜欢和他爱的人们在一起，却不愿意让他们拥抱，他宁愿挤在一个狭小的空间里。比起向人们寻求安慰，他更情愿去接触一个玩具或者宠物。
他也许特别有探险精神，没有感知危险的能力，然后他就会很快地用完他的九条命。
一个阿斯伯格孩子有很灵敏的听觉，很大的噪声和突然的变动可能会吓着他。他其他的感官也会特别灵敏，比如触觉和味觉。但是令其他人觉得烦扰的东西却不会烦扰到他。
他对食物常常很挑剔，需要同样的食物同样地方式呈现，日复一日。
他对同龄的孩子通常做的事情不感兴趣。
如果他被迫混合起来，他不知道怎么做。
其他的孩子交朋友，但是不会邀请他一起玩，而且他有可能会被欺负。
有时候他的父母会感觉悲哀，不明白为什么他们不能理解他们自己的孩子，而后他们会变得非常保护他们的孩子。
阿斯伯格的孩子也会觉得悲哀。
他也许会变成一个沉迷在他自己的世界里的孤独者，一些小事情也会令他着迷好几个小时，而且他会毫不厌倦地再三重复着同样的事情。
当事情令他难以承受时，他会发脾气。
有时候他的伴侣想他们会比他的父母更能令他开心。
他的发音也许非常不错，但是他会将一些词所混淆，或者误会人们所说的话。
当人们和他说话他会拒绝看着他们。
即使当他说话时，他会一直谈论着同一个话题，让每个人都觉得厌烦。
然后他会说些什么让他们停下并且思考，他们就会钦佩于他的聪明和智慧。
很多时候他的想法领先于他的同伴们。
他会寻求别人所不想去考虑的答案，或者发明新的方法去做旧事情。
人们也许会惊讶于他是如何准备验证他最近的理论，有些人会认为他有些天赋。
日常的例行习惯会令他觉得舒服，而且他喜欢一个固定的路线，如果计划改变的话他会变的焦虑。
通常阿斯伯格的孩子有很强的幽默感，但是他不会总是想到他在说什么，令那些在他身边的人也许会尴尬地迎合他。
他是诚实的，这很好但是当然，有些时候他过于诚实了。
而且当他试图撒谎的时候，他并不擅长此道。
一个阿斯伯格的孩子可能会对所有人都很开朗，不管年龄或体型或人种，而且他会选择一些别人认为他不会喜欢的朋友。
但是随着成长，他感觉到他和别人不一样，感觉到他似乎来自另外一个星球，就象一个外来者在观察一个他从来不能真正理解的世界。
但是因为他对生命独特的观点，他对细节的观察，和他神奇的关注力，很多的阿斯伯格的孩子在他自己选择的领域
里能达到高峰。
当然，他在跟随时尚潮流方面需要一些帮助，但是不要忘了，每个人都有自己的方式，毕竟每个人都有一小部分阿斯伯格的特征。
所以一个阿斯伯格的孩子就和其他孩子一样。
他需要爱和鼓励，有时候需要一些建议，需要一些独处的空间，那样每个人就能够轻松一点并且乐于看到他成为一个独特的人。
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发表于 09-3-15 03:56:10
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AS就是阿斯伯格综合症的缩写。。。
具体期待忠于我心说明，呵呵。。。