I hate my boss, how can I adjust myself!

trueman108

Dear my friends and doctors in Sunshine:
I had alreadly gone out from Depression for almost 9 months till now, it is a very difficult term for me.

In recent term, I found my boss is not a normal guy, he is very easy to be very angry with anything and any people. My boss is a very rich spanish man, he is very wealthy, rich, handsome and healthy, but in recent months, his temper
changed a lot, he always can not satisfied with the people and the things, no anything and any people can let him feel
a little happy, he only love money a lot, he always squeeze our "blood", he told me many times that he will raise my
salary in this year, but he had never done it, till now, my salary had not raised up any coin.

The most unfair thing is that he always disturb our jobs because of some very small and strange things, these things in
normal people's eyes are nothing, but he think these things are very very important, for example, he will be very angry with one dirt on the table, he also complain about the cleaner can not put the files in a very good way. Meanwhile, he
also shouted at us that we had not thrown some waste files in the office immediately.

In my view, I do not want to touch his things in the office, because if I touched his things, he will find out it and
shouted at me immediately, but if I had not touched his things, he will think I am too lazy to clean all the waste file and
the waste things in the office, he can never satisfied with any people's action.

He is a man only 47 years old, but he is very difficult to deal with now, before he is a very warm-hearted and nice man,
but he changed his attitude during some recent months. I do not know what happened with him, I only know his
powerful father had just retired from a very high position of one spanish company, but in Spain, father and son will
never help each other and never deal with the same business, I think this case will not influent him a lot, but he become a big monster in recent months indeed. I felt very boring and very scared to be working with him, because you will never feel happy to be with him, he will always give you very very low statements. His property had already exceeded
RMB100 millions, but he also very very unhappy in everyday, the worst thing is that he always transfer this unhappy
mood to other peoples.

I am very tired to be with him, I want to change my job, but I am a 35 years old woman, I am not so easy to find
another very good job to do now, but I am very fed up with my boss indeed.

My friend and doctors, how can I adjust myself to have a good mood to work under this kind of person. Is he a little
crazy or not? Please give me some very good advices so that I can help myself to adjust very well.

lynxapple

feeling is feeling, work is work
just think your boss had paid you to suffer from his angre, then you would be able to release a little bit


in another hand, he should face something cause his tamper changed
just as everyone has crest and trough, you boss was the same and he was easier to tolerate since he was that
handsome in your eyes