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发表于 05-12-8 03:06:33 | 只看该作者 回帖奖励 |倒序浏览 |阅读模式
What questions you most interested in asking?
What are you going to do if you are Charlie Z. Song?
What are you going to do if you are out of depression TOTALLY?
What are you going to do if you want to make suicide?
..........................................if it is HARD to go to sleep?
...........................................if your girlfriend/boyfriend is anygry with you?
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What are you going to do if you are RICH!
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发表于 05-12-8 14:05:39 | 只看该作者
eutgoeru, I agree with you!

This is the problem of Charles's Computer,I think Charles can solve this problem as soon as possible, so anyone else who can not undterstand English can know what Charles say repidly.

Bell
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 楼主| 发表于 05-12-8 14:29:34 | 只看该作者
Many thx to woiyezi!!!
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发表于 05-12-9 13:01:15 | 只看该作者
1.        I’m interested in asking questions which I am interested in. 
2.        If I were Charles Song, I would create a Blog(don’t know if you have), and just write down anything that come to mind—kind of relief really.
3.        Enjoy life with my family and friends and cherish what I have
4.        I would turn to my best friend for help if I have such thought.
5.        Just let it be and don’t think that much, coz the more I think, the more difficult to get to sleep. Find something to read is an alternative.
6.        I will cool it down for a while and then find an opportunity to have an in-depth talk with him if possible.
7.        I would donate part of the money to education, and then I would use the other part to travel around the world and have fun…
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发表于 05-12-9 13:35:56 | 只看该作者
Good Suggestions,Kathy!

Charles is fortunate, because he can access the sunshine website and can communicate with the net friends.
When I was in depression eight years ago, no such help, so I had to stay at home to recover. It take me almost two years to work again.
So I think Charles will be better and better!

Bell
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发表于 05-12-9 13:45:38 | 只看该作者
Thanks, Bell

God help those who help themselves.
Wish you all the best!
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发表于 05-12-9 15:12:43 | 只看该作者
Thanks to Kathy also!

The article about "American Mad" is very good! wish much more!
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 楼主| 发表于 05-12-10 12:34:48 | 只看该作者

responses to kathy.....

[quote="Kathy"]1.        I’m interested in asking questions which I am interested in. 
2.        If I were Charles Song, I would create a Blog(don’t know if you have), and just write down anything that come to mind—kind of relief really.
3.        Enjoy life with my family and friends and cherish what I have
4.        I would turn to my best friend for help if I have such thought.
5.        Just let it be and don’t think that much, coz the more I think, the more difficult to get to sleep. Find something to read is an alternative.
6.        I will cool it down for a while and then find an opportunity to have an in-depth talk with him if possible.
7.        I would donate part of the money to education, and then I would use the other part to travel around the world and have fun…[/quote]
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 楼主| 发表于 05-12-10 12:41:41 | 只看该作者
1. good, good and good!
2. how to create a Blog? i really have NO idea.
3. yes, i do!
4. i am learning to do that.
5. FORTUNATELY, like one of the friends here said, i go online.
6. yes, ma'am.
7. i would donate part of the money to WWW.SUNOFUS.COM, then would use the other part to do ANYTHING I'D LOVE!

Many thanks to Kathy!!!!!!
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发表于 05-12-11 20:41:23 | 只看该作者
Dear All,

May I ask two more questions here?

1.What would you do if your boyfriend/girlfriend left you for good for some reason and you feel deeply hurt? (如果你的男/女朋友因为某种原因永远地离开了你,你感到被深深地伤害了,你会怎么做?)
2.What would you do if you cannot get rid of him/her from your mind and you feel desperate in the sense that you will never ever see him/her again? (如果他/她在你的脑海里久久挥之不去;一想到可能此生永远再也见不到他/她了,你是如此之绝望,你会怎么做?)

Your inputs and suggestions are highly appreciated here! Thanks!
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 楼主| 发表于 05-12-11 23:37:34 | 只看该作者
1. time will kill everything!!!
if time for feelingdeeply hurt, then feel deeply hurt; if time for feeling sorry, then sorry; if anygry, then angry; if happy then happy. please remember: you never ever feel you are lucky ALL THE TIME! on the other hand, you never ever feel you are unlucky ALL THE TIME!

2. if time for lunch, then lunch; if work, then work; if Sunday, then rest; if desperate, then desperate;........IF HAPPY, THEN HAPPY!!!
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发表于 05-12-12 13:11:45 | 只看该作者
Kathy:
I agree with the opinions of Charles: Time is always going, no life can exist forever,so you must cherish your life, no matter how desperate or sorry or angry or happy.
You are master of yourself!

Bell
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发表于 05-12-12 13:47:29 | 只看该作者
Dear Charles and Bell and dear all friends,

I’m so grateful to you for your great advice and help.
Unfortunately it happened to me and triggered my depression. I struggled, I cried, and I even thought of commit suicide. I had thought I had cried out all my tears in my lifetime… Just like what you said time will kill everything. Now I feel I’m quite out of it even though I still think of those happy time we’ve spent together. I’m so lucky that I have some good friends who support me and stand beside me all the time. Without them, I can hardly imagine where I am today. And I also feel grateful to www.sunofus.org. It was this website that brings me a glimpse of hope when I was at my lowest…
Often times, I look up into the sky at night, and I feel so small--all my sorrows and hardships are ignorable…I shouldn’t take it too seriously
Bell, what you said is right: we are master of ourselves and by helping others we may find the meaning of our life.
Well, life is good…
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 楼主| 发表于 05-12-12 17:54:00 | 只看该作者
DINGDINGDING...........DINGDINGDING...........
WONDERFUL VIEWS/COMMENTS/IDEAS......
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发表于 05-12-12 20:56:31 | 只看该作者
[quote="Charlie Z. Song"]1. time will kill everything!!!
if time for feelingdeeply hurt, then feel deeply hurt; if time for feeling sorry, then sorry; if anygry, then angry; if happy then happy. please remember: you never ever feel you are lucky ALL THE TIME! on the other hand, you never ever feel you are unlucky ALL THE TIME!

2. if time for lunch, then lunch; if work, then work; if Sunday, then rest; if desperate, then desperate;........IF HAPPY, THEN HAPPY!!![/quotea]
说得很好!
是啊,时间可以过滤一切,包括好的,坏的。
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