I´m shocked to learn this bad news. I know any word of condolence is not of practical use. But what you need, always, but now in particular, is a clear mind. It´s no use worrying, panicking, or thinking about possible consequences.
To know where he is, you need to recall every detail for recent days. e.g. How´s his mood lately? did he ever say anything indicating the will to escape? Is there any place/activity that he´s particularly interested in recently? Has he met any friends? What´s the claimed purpose for his outing this time? Did he get dressed/behave normally? Has he cheated on you about anything recently? Is there a possibility for him to simply get astray?
When calling the police, do remember to remain calm. Policemen are not responsible for any outcome of the search. So try your best to be sensible and cooperative, not to complain to or even get angry with them - you can do it to others if you need, but not the police.
And last but not the least - take care of yourself. You can only be helpful when you are safe and sound. We are all with you! God be with you for your love of him!作者: malnu 时间: 07-12-3 04:44
Up to the top! All friends in 【双相情感障碍】, please back msy up with our kind will and action!作者: thail08 时间: 07-12-3 06:01
不要急，耐心等。
相信他会自己回来。作者: aladd 时间: 07-12-3 09:50
我也在北京
如果你愿意，你发站内短消息给我，说一下你老公的具体特征，我可以帮你找找。
最近我正好没有什么事情，有很多时间。 ：）
虽然我们不认识，但是我希望你相信我。
如果你不想，我也不勉强。
希望你老公能平安回家。作者: LUCKY 时间: 07-12-3 11:47
听到这个消息,很意外,我还以为你LG摆脱燥狂转抑郁,心情已经比以前好多了呢.
现在最重要的是你自己要注意自己的身体,知道你吃不下,但是如果你自己的身体也垮了,那就啥都没有了.
我们都在经历人生中很苦难的一段日子,
但一定要坚信自己
相信你的LG在躲避,但是会回来的,药带了没有?最近是在抑郁状态吗?作者: MAYGAOMEI 时间: 07-12-3 12:30
msy,你老公怎么了，怎么会出走了呢，他走之前的情绪怎么样，有没有什么异常啊，和你说什么了没有啊。现在的情况怎么样了，有没有什么消息。你一定不要太着急，我觉得你老公肯定没事，上天会保佑他的！作者: wjyuyu 时间: 07-12-3 13:15
I´m shocked to learn this bad news. I know any word of condolence is not of practical use. But what you need, always, but now in particular, is a clear mind. It´s no use worrying, panicking, or thinking about possible consequences
同意纳兰版的话，现在任何安慰的话语都没有实际的意义，最关键，msy，你还是要保持清晰的头脑，担心、惊慌抑或自己想象后果都是一点用处没有的。
To know where he is, you need to recall every detail for recent days. e.g. How´s his mood lately? did he ever say anything indicating the will to escape? Is there any place/activity that he´s particularly interested in recently? Has he met any friends? What´s the claimed purpose for his outing this time? Did he get dressed/behave normally? Has he cheated on you about anything recently? Is there a possibility for him to simply get astray?
要知道他在哪里，msy，你需要回忆最近这段时间的所有细节，例如说，他近来的情绪怎样呢？他有没有说过什么话暗示他会出走？他最近有没有对什么地方或活动是特别感兴趣的呢？他有没有遇到过什么朋友？他有没有说过这次外出有什么目的？他的着装或行为是不是正常？他近来有没有骗你什么的？还有没有可能就是他迷路了呢？
When calling the police, do remember to remain calm. Policemen are not responsible for any outcome of the search. So try your best to be sensible and cooperative, not to complain to or even get angry with them - you can do it to others if you need, but not the police.
你报警了，记得要保持冷静。警方对出走负有搜寻的责任，但不是就一定能找到。所以一定得保持理智和合作，不能抱怨甚至迁怒于警方才好，发泄的话可以找其他对象，但不能是警方啊。。。
And last but not the least - take care of yourself. You can only be helpful when you are safe and sound. We are all with you! God be with you for your love of him!
最后最重要的是，你要照顾好自己。只有你本身安然无恙才最能处理好这次事件。我们与你并肩作战的！你如此深爱你的丈夫，上天一定会保佑你的！作者: York 时间: 07-12-3 13:16
malnu 并不是每个人的英语都和你一样好！作者: wjyuyu 时间: 07-12-3 13:30 标题: 回复 #9 York 的帖子 请不要抱怨吧，很多事情都有缘由，但并不都是我们可以左右和改变的，面对就是了。
msy，请振作起来，无论如何要吃点东西的，饿慌了，心会更慌，更没主意了。你要稳定情绪，才能更好地应对。作者: 羽毛 时间: 07-12-3 13:39 标题: 回复 #1 msy 的帖子 姐姐，你对你老公的爱和照顾一直让我很感动。
就像楼上各位说的，先吃点东西，保证自己的身体，才有体力精力应对问题。
不要慌，静下来想对策。相信他很爱你，会回来的。
为你们祈祷。作者: msy 时间: 07-12-3 15:46
我只是不想再写他抑郁了,怕是对大家造成不好的影响.
原来他兴奋时的焦虑是怕他病加重,被人歧视.现在是怕永远都见不到他了.作者: malnu 时间: 07-12-3 15:51 标题: 回复 #8 wjyuyu 的帖子 Thank you yuyu again very much for the timely and wonderful translation (and there´s no need to translate this one)
Before this incident comes to an end, I doubt if msy will ahve the time and mood to review our responses. But let´s try our best any way. I believe we can will things if our wishes are strong enough! Let´s speak out best wishes and reach out our helping hands.
The most important thing now is to get involved. And our helping will shall never come in vain
I thank all of you from the deep bottom of my heart.作者: msy 时间: 07-12-3 15:56
警察说已把他的情况放在他们的网上,如果有北京市任何派出所发现类似的人就会给他们打电话.他们就会给我打电话.
