标题: This is Charles Z. Song....... [打印本页] 作者: Fei Wang 时间: 05-11-30 16:01 标题: This is Charles Z. Song....... I have been trying to login these days....until now i changed my ID to one of my favorite singer: Wang Fei. My God!作者: woiyezi 时间: 05-12-1 11:19
Please tell sunshine to solve this problem!作者: Fei Wang 时间: 05-12-1 18:28
I did.作者: Fei Wang 时间: 05-12-3 15:01
转帖：老鼠写给猫咪的情书
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送交者: 可笑不可笑 2005年12月07日21:21:48 于 [笑林之声]http://www.bbsland.com
一个女孩写的经典程序!!!
result love(boy, girl)
{
if( boy.有房() and boy.有车() )
{
boy.set(nothing);
return girl.嫁给(boy);
}
if( girl.愿意等() )
{
while(!(boy.赚钱 > 100,000 and girl.感情 > 8 ) )
{
for( day=1; day <=365; day++)
{
if( day == 情人节 )
if( boy.givegirl(玫瑰) )
girl.感情++;
else
girl.感情--;
if( day == girl.生日)
if( boy.givegirl(玫瑰) )
girl.感情++;
else
girl.感情--;
boy.拼命赚钱();
}
}
if( boy.有房() and boy.有车() )
{
boy.set(nothing);
return girl.嫁给(boy);
}
年龄++;
girl.感情--;
}
return girl.goto( another_boy);作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-10 18:35
老幺: 在中国，你必须会说英语
我再说一次文章，最后一次。
对我来说，写文章是极其痛楚的事。有时一整月都写不出一行，又有时挥笔连写三天三夜，到头来却又全都写得驴唇不对马嘴。
尽管这样，写文章同时又是一种乐趣。因为较之生之维艰，在这上面寻求意味的确是太轻而易举了。
意识到这一点时我大概还不到20岁，当时竟惊愕得一周都说不出话来。而觉得只要耍点小聪明，整个世界都将被自己玩于股掌之上，所有的价值观将全然为之一变，时光可以倒流……
等我意识到这是一种错觉，不幸已是很久以后的事了。作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-11 00:04
第一次开放爱情的心语歌。
爱情是找不来的，爱情是从天上掉下来。你就是从天上掉下来我那个心中的爱人。我怎么能不认真地去爱你；怎么能不捧在我心怀中，让它静静地流淌着，让它漫漫地浸透到血液中。浸透进去，那是成功的爱；那是分不开的爱；那是永生永世都难忘的爱；那是天地相呼应的爱啊。作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-12 19:21
想你的轨迹 ahua 今天 05:05
他走了很久了，我原来一直以为我会慢慢把他忘掉。因为我以前就是这样把别人从我的心里慢慢抹去的。我有我自己的很多办法：逛街、唱歌……最最有效的方法就是---重新找个男朋友，占据我心灵的空白就可以了。
可是这次却不是这样，我频繁地在夜里醒来，我失眠，我知道我是在想他，越来越想他，那种痛苦是以前从未有过的。我嘲笑我自己或者安慰我自己----假想我也许只是他生命中那个阶段的“备胎”，我何苦要自己独自折磨自己；但更多的时候，我却是另外一种想法---因为我曾经问过他：人和人之间会不会有感应，当其中一个人在思念对方的时候，另外一个人也在想念他（她）。
他回答会的。
我很痛苦，这种痛苦越来越浓，已经不限于在夜晚降临的时候，它随时随地会突如其来地袭击我，以前一起逛过的商场，爱吃的餐馆，经过的街道……，我越来越无助。我快要疯掉了。我知道我必须得尽快从这种难以自拔的回忆中走出来。
我在周末的一天，选择去找他。他和他是同学，他现在正处在很黄金的年龄，我也知道，自己骨子里是很愿意和四十岁的男人交往的。
从他们身上，我可以呼吸到成熟稳重还有某种安全的味道。
他问我，想去哪里。我说随便吧，只要安静就好。
我们到了离市区三十公里的一个安静却很华丽的地方。
这里让你能马上领受到有钱会是怎样的生活。他帮我要了宵夜，问我喝什么。我说来些红酒吧。这个是我见他之前想了好久好久最终决定的。也许只有喝醉了，才可以给自己解脱。-----呵，呵。我从来没有喝过这么多酒，但是居然我没有醉，反而他有些醉了，可能是那种似醉非醉的临界状态吧。他说这种状态是让人最舒服的状态。
他忽然问我，出国的他是不是也喜欢我。
我说没有。-----我是个会保守秘密的女人。
这晚，我睡的很好，也许是红酒的缘故吧。
他很体贴人：“路上照顾好自己。想我了随时来找我”。我笑笑，然后头也不回地上了车。
这次之行，我原来定义为“叛逆”，是叛逆什么，我不知道。我想把自己变得坏些，可能就不会把感情看得那么纯了，也许会减轻自己对远方的他的思念。可是，事实上不是这样，非但没有减轻，反而变得更加浓重还平添了一份沉重。
这个世界啊，真的会让两个人天各一方，想见不能。
我想大哭一场，我更加痛恨自己。
我要继续放纵自己。
我要等他，在心里好好地守望着他的归来。
因为我知道，此时的他，一定也是刻骨铭心地在思念着我。作者: Kathy 时间: 05-12-13 16:36
another sad story...
Is it a true story?作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-13 19:00
If you love him,
bring him to New York,
for it's heaven;
if you hate him,
bring him to New York,
for it's hell;
=============================
Now my question for Dear Kathy:
Is it true " New York is Haven"
or Is it true " New York is Hell"作者: Kathy 时间: 05-12-14 00:30
Dear Charles,
Firstly, thanks for your assignment—not an easy question really and it took me some time to think about it.
Secondly, I cannot tell if it is heaven or hell coz I’ve never been to New York. :-)
I think it is two sides of a coin, so the answers are yes and no. In that TV show, to the main character Wang Qiming, it is both heaven and hell. It is heaven because he was quite successful in terms of wealth—he earned a lot of money and became rich through his hard work; the other side of the coin is definitely hell, because he lost many—his wife left him, his daughter was alienated from him and became indulged in wine ect.ect…but at least he finally found his love-A Chun. So to him, it is a complex answer whether it is heaven or hell and I think it also happens to others. It might be someone’s heaven but other’s hell or it might be heaven to you in terms of certain aspects, but hell in terms of other.
Thirdly, what you think of yourself is often quite different from what others might think about you. Say you have a decent job and earn a decent salary but deep in heart you might feel you lead a miserable life coz you struggle a lot internally and you’ve never been satisfied with yourself. In the viewpoint of others you are quite different; they even envy you for who you are. So when it comes to the question of heaven or hell, you might feel it is hell to you while others might think you are living in heaven or vice versa.
Fourthly, one man’s meat might be others’ poison. Some say New York is their heaven, so others are willing to go and have their try there. Unfortunately it turned out to be their hell. People tend to go along with the crowd and sometimes they don’t even know what they are doing.
Fifthly, heaven and hell are two extremes in life. I think for many people, they are living somewhere between…
Last but not least, some are blessed by God, so they live in heaven, while others are not, so they live in hell.
My question here is where do you think you are living? Heaven or hell or somewhere between?
Cheers,
Kathy作者: woiyezi 时间: 05-12-14 13:31
Very good answers from Kathy!
For the question, I can not answer exactly, please give this chance to Charles!
Bell作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-14 18:14
My God!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What a Great Question Kathy asked!!!!
What are you doing, Dear Mr. Bell!!! Please open your mouth and answer it!!!
Honestly i have many many many....words in my mind and they are eager to find any exit.....but, too many so i can't say EVEN A WORD right now.
it's 4:54am right now, i need to go to work today, so forgive me to run away from this topic, just like Bell, haha.
=============================
My question here is where do you think you are living? Heaven or hell or somewhere between?
==============================作者: Kathy 时间: 05-12-14 23:30
Boy, that’s OK. It’s not compulsory anyway. You may skip it or answer it later—no need to write an essay, so please don’t be too modest. I just have that curiosity…
Charles, congratulations on your new job. Courage, patience and persistence are 3 elements to success. You see, you have begun to make a big step toward your goal. Just do it!
May God bless you!
Cheers,
Kathy作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-15 13:58
Dear Kathy:
I love what you said: "May God Bless"!!! i will go to my fellowship tomorrow afternoon, there are about 20 christians there, most of them are from well-known universities in china, like Beijing Uni., QingHua.......i love that fellowship!作者: Kathy 时间: 05-12-15 21:31
Good, good! I know that many have become Christians, some are even Communists before they came to States...Is it an English-speaking church or Chinese-speaking one? And the preacher? May God bless all of you!
Cheers,
Kathy作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-15 22:24
i used to be a communist party member. there are more than 1000 people in my church, the pastors speak English, Mandrin, Cantonese. more than 10 fellowships under the church.作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-19 09:27
my translation is on newspaper the day before yesterday, Anita said, wow, pretty good!
then she gave me two more aticles: one is about Actoress Miss Zhang, Ziyi: "memoire" May be Hollywood, But It's Still Good".
the other, i mentioned already, is about Depression.作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-19 09:31
the title is: "Asians get depression, too."
i made a speech this afternoon in a meeting, under the invitation from the director Eric Lee, he is also my friend.作者: Kathy 时间: 05-12-19 14:04
Charles,
How I wish I could read your translation on those 2 topics.
Kathy作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-19 16:56
try to logon: www.sampan.org
if failed, i will think it over...作者: woiyezi 时间: 05-12-19 17:21
Health: Asians Get Depressed, Too
by M. Thang
About 8% of the adult population suffers from major depression, which is a leading cause of disability. While these facts and perhaps even depression itself may seem insignificant, the consequences are not. Furthermore, Asian Americans are not "mentally healthier" than other groups in the US, reports the Surgeon General.
Left untreated, depression can severely reduce one’s quality of life, says Albert S. Yeung, MD, ScD, a psychiatrist at Massachusetts General Hospital who studies depression in Asians. Insomnia, withdrawal from family and social activities, irritability, chronic sadness, appetite loss, and difficulty concentrating are some symptoms of depression. The illness can precipitate emotional and physical conflict that results in job loss, marital and parenting problems, and academic failure.
Suicide can result from untreated depression, too. Of all women in the US over the age of 65, Asians have the highest suicide rate, reports the Surgeon General. Asian American women ages 15 to 24 have a higher suicide rate than do white, black, and Hispanic women in the same age group.
But diagnosis must occur for treatment to begin. In Asians, depression can be especially hard to diagnose. First, says Dr. Yeung: “Depression is a fairly Euro-American concept...so many Asian Americans [with depression] don’t actively seek treatment.” They tend to focus on physical problems -- headaches or dizziness,
for example -- rather than more emotional symptoms such as sadness and depressed moods.
Second, primary-care doctors may be so busy that they lack the time or inclination, in addition to the training, to explore the emotional aspects of patients who have depression.
Stigma exists with depression, too, so Asian Americans are less likely to get mental health services. Instead, they try to handle their depression within their families. They seek medical help “only when [the depression] gets severe and disrupts family life,”
says David Takeuchi, a medical sociologist at the Univ. of Washington. Asians also tend to associate any psychiatric problems with insanity, of which they have a strong negative perception, says Dr. Yeung, and they may view depression as a sign of weakness or lack of willpower.
Language barriers and culturally-inappropriate health services may be obstacles as well.
Some persons with depression may recover spontaneously. However, if not treated early on, depressed persons can take much longer to recover - with the course of depression drawn out over an extremely long period, even two years, says Dr. Yeung.
The illness has other implications as well. Both minor and major depression are strongly associated with increased mortality (rate of death) in persons with diabetes, according to a study in the Nov. 2005 “Diabetes Care.” Diabetes -- which can lead to blindness and leg amputations -- disproportionately afflicts Asian Americans.
Persons with depression may be at a greater risk for developing diabetes, too. Fortunately, treatment for depression helps with the management of symptoms of both diseases, and improves quality of life.
Some illnesses may hide the symptoms of depression, says the American Association for Geriatric Psychiatry. When a depressed person has physical symptoms from a stroke, gastrointestinal problem, heart disease, arthritis or another ailment, he or she may believe depressive symptoms are due to an existing physical illness and completely ignore the symptoms.
Moreover, US-born Asians, as well as Asian immigrants who arrived in the US before the age of 12, have higher rates of depression and substance abuse than do other Asian Americans, says Dr. Takeuchi.
You can help friends or family members with depression to get medical help by being completely supportive. With some Asians, it can help also to not focus on the word “depression” because of its possible stigma, says Dr. Yeung. Gently urge the patient to notice his different appearance or impaired functioning. Suggest he or she has been looking unwell or tired. Inform the rest of the family, and suggest professional help.
Here are other tips as well, adapted from those offered by the American Association for Geriatric Psychiatry:
• Discuss your feelings or when you were depressed. Knowing that you understand may help loved ones to talk about their feelings.
• During the holidays, acknowledge that things can be difficult.
• If your loved one isn’t eating or has lost weight, gently ask about his appetite or disinterest in food.
• Once you’ve gotten past the initial awkwardness, your loved one may want to talk to you. At that point, listen -- even to unpleasant or “boring” aspects. Offer support.
• Offer specific suggestions or help implement them -- for example, offer to go with your loved one to the family doctor or make an appointment with a psychiatrist.
Be aware that it may take many weeks to get the person to agree to get help. Among older people, common triggers for depression are medical illnesses as well as genetics and biochemical changes in the brain.
Persons reluctant to seek medical help may be willing to “screen” themselves for depression. By searching with the key words “depression screening” using a Web site like Google, says Dr. Yeung, people can find out their depression scores and if they have clinical depression. Some sites are in Chinese and Vietnamese.
But most important is getting medical help -- even if persons are treating themselves with herbs or traditional Chinese therapies such as acupuncture and tai chi. Depression can be treated effectively with drugs and counseling.
Moreover, say Drs. Yeung and Takeuchi, there’s nothing shameful about having -- or seeking medical help for -- depression.
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This health article was funded by the Asian Health Initiative of Tufts-New England Medical Center作者: woiyezi 时间: 05-12-19 17:24
Above is the article translated by Charles.
Nevertheless,no chinese.
Who can translate it into chinese as better as Charles?作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-19 22:54
场景：长江边，一老一少，一对商界仇敌
台词：如果我有一秒钟的生命，我想对你说“我爱你”；如果我有一分钟的生命，我想抱抱你、亲亲你；如果我有一小时的生命，我想给你再讲个故事；如果我有一天的生命，我想陪你再看一次日落；如果我有一月的生命，我想与你游览秀美山河；如果我有一年的生命，我想……和你分手，然后把四级过了！作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-21 15:10
i live in Boston, MA, USA.
about 5 hours's drive you will be in New York, of course, the speed is around 70--80 mile/hour. the speed limit here is 65 mile/hour, but everyone is speedy!! as long as you are less than 90 mile/hour, it should be OK, police won't give you a trouble, otherwise they will be TOO BUSY, haha.
My friend called you yesterday, he is now in Los Angeles, CA, USA, will be in New York next week, so i said: OK, give me a call whenever you are in New York, then i will meet you there....作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-27 07:56
今天我偷看了我家存折，钱多得吓死人了~（搞笑的是精彩回复）
16、国家最高人民检察院通知: 由于楼猪家有大量奢侈用品和巨额存款不能解释其来源,国家最高人民检察院反贪局已经正式以"巨额财产来历不明罪"对其进行立案侦察,希望知情者前来举报. 17、不回帖就看个人资料.如果你回了,你肯定是万元户了,如果你看了,你肯定快乐了,如果你行动了,你可能就拥有1后面加6个0了.作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-30 14:43
a funny article R. 昨天 13:50
Some of them make sense.