标题: 那是你吗？ [打印本页] 作者: 法国梧桐 时间: 05-11-30 15:26 标题: 那是你吗？ 以前我在中央电视台九套节目travelogue里看见一个男主持人，主持过不少期节目，比如深圳，还有少数民族地区的旅游，他说的英语很清楚，我比较能听懂，现在好像不怎么见了，我很好奇，Charles,那是不是你？如果是你，我想说，你主持的很好啊，应该继续。作者: Fei Wang 时间: 05-11-30 15:47
test作者: Fei Wang 时间: 05-11-30 15:49
Dear 法国梧桐:
sorry i have been trying to login these days!!!
sign...........
anyway, this is Charles Z. Song.
Unfornately no.作者: Fei Wang 时间: 05-11-30 15:54
憂鬱症及其治療
每每被人耻笑时，我并不乐衷于任何形式的辨白，而是力争笑得比旁人更大声些。久而久之，我便多少有了几分“好脾气”的名声，心里都隐隐的觉得我老实嘴笨。殊不知我的心里却始终有几分不合时宜的清高，这清高使我在大多数时候并不擅长与人争辩，于是无论是关乎人生世界政治经济，鄙人都仅仅停留于有问必答的挤牙膏式阶段，不论对方是高谈阔论海阔天空滔滔不绝还是更加冲动的反驳鄙人，鄙人都有信心有决心恪守沉默是金，死活不多说一个字。之所以会顽固至此不得不提英国一位老人，他的名字叫罗素。虽然英国在工业革命之后基本在任何领域没有任何建树，以至于在逆水乘舟中不幸被人冲到了下游，罗素依然是值得一提的。很惭愧以鄙人弱弱的智商并无法参透他老的数理哲学，而“参差不齐乃幸福之本源”这句话却始终引领甚至主宰这我生活的方方面面。说白了就是求同存异，可似乎比求同存异还要宽泛些。比如说你不要妄图去否定甚至去改变他人，因为每个个体都有差异，否定他人的特有性等同于否定他人存在的合理性。又比如说不要觉得别人不能理解你，因为既然你可以感知别人不能理解你这一个事实并且感到委屈的情绪，实际上已经说明你已经不能理解他人为什么不能理解你这个事实，也就是表明其实你也无法理解他人。既然如此，为什么还要强求他人的理解呢？似乎王小波那厮也把这句话挂在嘴边，可惜他早早死了，不知这句话在泉下是否好用。总之如果世界上所有智商一般却自以为是的人们，能够时不时的想想这句话的含义，以为警句，那么那些无聊至极的世界大战和那些怡笑大方的家庭纠纷，以及更加不可理喻的怨恨，争端，嫉妒等等龌龊的情感，如今是否还能一一健在呢？显然是要打个大大的问号的。作者: Fei Wang 时间: 05-12-5 20:26
the following is from Harvard/MIT Chinese Students' Websites.....
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顺便说一句，大家讨论的大喝柠檬蜂蜜水，加上8-10小时/天睡眠可比Cream de la Mer有效。不如省下护肤的钱，于是我就慷慨一把，支援孩子上学了。
哦，昨天买菜，看到柠檬10/99c, 我败了。一定要继续监督自己喝水。
总之，我现在葛郎台：开销仅有房租，utility, 食物。附近没有什么餐馆，学校食堂难吃得很，Subway不如自己做。没车当然没有夜生活，灯红酒绿诱惑不到我。blockbuster 本月还free trial. 哎，不用考验自己的毅力也能攒钱呀作者: Fei Wang 时间: 05-12-5 20:34
I just copy-paste those information, so it's obvious that those chinese students need to think it over and over before buying something, are they poor? probably not. are they rich? hard to say....
But, one thing for sure, no matter whether they are rich or poor, they would cherish a lot for the money, since they know it's not easy to earn money in the USA.....
Please help me translate those things into Chinese, thanks!作者: Kathy 时间: 05-12-5 23:09
我拷贝粘贴了这些信息.很显然,这些中国学生在买东西之前要考虑再三的.是他们穷吗?也许不是;他们富有吗?难讲.....但有一点是肯定的,不管他们是穷是富,他们都会很珍惜钱,以为他们知道在美国挣钱不易.作者: Fei Wang 时间: 05-12-6 13:47
http://www.childrenshospital.org/az/Site1409/mainpageS1409P0.html
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What are mood disorders?
Mood disorders is a category of mental health problems that include all types of depression and bipolar disorder. Mood disorders are sometimes called affective disorders.
During the 1980s, mental health professionals began to recognize symptoms of mood disorders in children and adolescents, as well as adults. However, children and adolescents do not necessarily experience or exhibit the same symptoms as adults. It is more difficult to diagnose mood disorders in children, especially because children are not always able to express how they feel. Today, clinicians and researchers believe that mood disorders in children and adolescents remain one of the most under-diagnosed mental health problems. Mood disorders in children also put them at risk for other conditions (most often anxiety disorder, disruptive behavior, substance abuse disorders, and physical illnesses, including diabetes) that may persist long after the initial episodes of depression are resolved.
What causes mood disorders?
What causes mood disorders in children is not well known. There are chemicals in the brain, called endorphins, that are responsible for positive moods. Other chemicals in the brain, called neurotransmitters, regulate endorphins. Most likely, depression (and other mood disorders) is caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain. Life events (such as unwanted changes in life) may also contribute to a child's depressed mood.
Affective disorders aggregate in families and are considered to be multifactorially inherited. Multifactorial inheritance means that "many factors" are involved. The factors are usually both genetic and environmental, where a combination of genes from both parents, in addition to unknown environmental factors, produce the trait or condition. Often one gender (either males or females) is affected more frequently than the other in multifactorial traits. There appears to be a different threshold of expression, which means that one gender is more likely to show the problem, over the other gender.
Who is affected by mood disorders?
Anyone can feel sad or depressed at times. However, mood disorders are more intense and difficult to manage than normal feelings of sadness. Children who have a parent with a mood disorder have a greater than 50 percent chance of also having a mood disorder. However, life events and stress can expose or exaggerate feelings of sadness or depression, making the feelings more difficult to manage.
Sometimes, life's problems can trigger depression. When parents get divorced, a loved one dies, a break up with a girlfriend or boyfriend happens, or grades are slipping, coping with the pressure may be difficult. These life events and stress can bring on feelings of sadness or depression or make a mood disorder harder to manage. Adolescents who have a parent with a mood disorder have a greater than 50 percent chance of having a mood disorder.
The chance for depression in females in the general population is 5 to 9 percent and for males is 3 to 4 percent. Once a person in the family has this diagnosis, the chance for their siblings or children to have the same diagnosis is 7 to 19 percent. In addition, relatives of persons with depression are also at increased risk for bipolar disorder (manic depression). The chance for siblings or children of a person with depression to have bipolar illness is 0.3 to 2 percent.
The chance for manic depression (or bipolar disorder) in males and females in the general population is 1 percent. Once a person in the family has this diagnosis, the chance for their siblings or children to have the same diagnosis is 4 to 18 percent. In addition, relatives of persons with manic depression are also at increased risk for depression. The chance for siblings or children of a person with manic depression to have depression is 6 to 28 percent.
What are the different types of mood disorders?
The following are the most common types of mood disorders experienced by children and adolescents:
major depression - a two-week period of a depressed or irritable mood or a noticeable decrease in interest or pleasure in usual activities, along with other signs of a mood disorder.
dysthymia (dysthymic disorder) - a chronic, low-grade, depressed or irritable mood for at least one year.
manic depression (bipolar disorder) - at least one episode of a depressed or irritable mood and at least one period of a manic (persistently elevated) mood.
mood disorder due to a general medical condition - many medical illnesses (including cancer, injuries, infections, and chronic medical illnesses) can trigger symptoms of depression.
substance induced mood disorder - symptoms of depression that are due to the effects of medication, drug abuse, exposure to toxins, or other forms of treatment.
What are the symptoms of mood disorders?
Children, depending upon their age and the type of mood disorder present, may exhibit different symptoms of depression. The following are the most common symptoms of a mood disorder. However, each child and adolescent may experience symptoms differently. Symptoms may include:
persistent feelings of sadness
feeling hopeless or helpless
having low self-esteem
feeling inadequate
excessive guilt
feelings of wanting to die
loss of interest in usual activities or activities once enjoyed
difficulty with relationships
sleep disturbances (i.e., insomnia, hypersomnia)
changes in appetite or weight
decreased energy
difficulty concentrating
a decrease in the ability to make decisions
suicidal thoughts or attempts
frequent physical complaints (i.e., headache, stomach ache, fatigue)
running away or threats of running away from home
hypersensitivity to failure or rejection
irritability, hostility, aggression
In mood disorders, these feelings appear more intense than adolescents normally feel from time to time. It is also of concern if these feelings continue over a period of time, or interfere with an adolescent's interest in being with friends or taking part in daily activities at home or school. Any adolescent who expresses thoughts of suicide should be evaluated immediately.
Other signs of possible mood disorders in adolescents may include:
difficulty achieving in school
constant anger
rebellious behaviors
trouble with family
difficulty with friends and peers
The symptoms of mood disorders may resemble other conditions or psychiatric problems. Always consult your child's physician for a diagnosis.
How are mood disorders diagnosed?
Mood disorders are a real medical disorder. They are not the result of poor parenting or something a child will likely just "get over."
A child psychiatrist or other mental health professional usually diagnoses mood disorders following a comprehensive psychiatric evaluation. An evaluation of the child's family, when possible, in addition to information provided by teachers and care providers may also be helpful in making a diagnosis.
Treatment for mood disorders:
Specific treatment for mood disorders will be determined by your child's physician based on:
your child's age, overall health, and medical history
extent of your child's symptoms
type of mood disorder
your child's tolerance for specific medications, procedures, or therapies
expectations for the course of the condition
your opinion or preference
Mood disorders can often be effectively treated. Treatment should always be based on a comprehensive evaluation of the child and family. Treatment may include one, or more, of the following:
antidepressant medications (especially when combined with psychotherapy has shown to be very effecting in the treatment of depression in children and teens)
psychotherapy (most often cognitive-behavioral and/or interpersonal therapy) for the child (focused on changing the child's distorted views of themselves and the environment around them; working through difficult relationships; identify stressors in the child's environment and how to avoid them)
family therapy
consultation with the child's school
Parents play a vital supportive role in any treatment process.
Preventive measures to reduce the incidence of mood disorders in children are not known at this time. However, early detection and intervention can reduce the severity of symptoms, enhance the child's normal growth and development, and improve the quality of life experienced by children with mood disorders.作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-7 23:21
表于: 12/06/2005 11:47 发表主题: 想海归的看看:一个硅谷VC在上海的感受
We've reported several Mercury News stories about Silicon Valley's venture capital rush to China over the past two years, not to mention dozens of blog posts. One thing people keep telling us about is the buzzing nightlife of China's major cities. Deal-making gets done in bars. And throw in the other benefits you get in this cheap-labor economy, you can see many several West Coast expat entrepreneurs say they're having a hard time going back to the valley. Nowhere is this truer than for those in Shanghai.
I (Matt) arrived in Shanghai weekend before last, and was immediately swept up by...
the energy and pride of the city's people. The vast majority is upwardly mobile. Peasants come in from the countryside, and take low-level manual jobs. They take the place of the city's bottom stratum of workers, who have moved up to the next level, aided by economic expansion. And so on. Salaries are creeping upward. No groaning here about decline, like in Germany.
My host, Sean Liu, who works for a start-up here called Hengbang, took me to a massage place ($11.50 for an hour and a half), and then we hit the town. We arrived at hopping "Bund" district at 11pm, and that was just the beginning. We headed into Bar Rouge, where pounding music greeted us. Waves of young professionals were drinking and dancing. More chatted on the patio outside, which looked over the Huangpu River. And, there, across the river, our eyes befell the real estate edifice reflecting the best and worst of China's stupendous growth: the skyscraper district of Pudong.
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Oriental Pearl
In the late 1980s, Pudong was waterlogged land where water buffalo trudged. Just a decade later, the government of Deng Xiaoping, in military style, had drained marshes and built a new city lined with a steel-and-glass phalanx of eighty-story skyscrapers. And there, in full view from our patio, arose the grotesquely phallic 1,535 foot tubular Oriental Pearl Television Tower --complete with giant testicular-like spheres supporting it below. I almost blushed. One of tallest towers in the world, it is a statement of China's lust for prowess.
Meanwhile, here in the pulsating Bar Rouge, the sexual revolution in China unfolded before me as scores of young Chinese men and women hooked up. Here's a good place to mention the intriguing story in the New York Times (subscription required) last week about the self-described Communist Party member blogger from Shanghai who goes by the pseudonym Mu Mu. "The 25-year-old Mu Mu appears online most evenings around midnight, shielding her face while striking provocative poses." Unfortunately, perhaps to shield her identity, the NYT doesn't provide web site.
It was said, ten years ago, that half the cranes in Asia operated in Shanghai (though no one is sure where the statistic comes from). Today, there are still hundreds, if not thousands, toiling away. Ken Rippen, an Australian engineer recruited to advise the government, had originally warned the government it would be impossible to complete the elevated Pudong roadway network within the deadlines planned. But he didn't appreciate the ability of the Chinese state to steamroll protesting property owners. Within thirteen months, the inner ringroad was finished.*
(Perhaps in a later post we'll try to mention more on the environmental cost of the Pudong growth.)
bar rouge.jpg
Back to the bar. Ever so often, the bartender would light the bar afire, and do some juggling with bottles (see photo here; sorry, view of fire is obscured by people, but juggler is the guy in distance, second to left). Won't bore you with the details, but the night went on, and we basically circulated through throngs of business people -- mostly single -- from all walks of the Shanghai business life, from Russian glamour models, Dutch packaging traders, Norwegian shipping executives -- and, of course, a melange of local Internet entrepreneurs and investors.
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Mark Hsu
At 3am, I found myself chatting with an ambitious young Chinese woman -- in her 20s -- who is setting up the Shanghai office of an outfit linked to the Nederlander Group, a theatre property group out of New York. Over a drink, coincidentally, we fell upon a common link with Mark Hsu, vice president of private equity firm H&Q Pacific. Now, this is significant because I'd heretofore been trying -- unsuccessfully -- to meet Mark. He is son of Ta-Lin Hsu, one of the earliest venture capitalists to create a pan-Asian investment strategy, and who entered China 12 years ago. Before I left from the U.S., two friends had recommended I look up Mark, a passionate and plugged-in young man of 35. However, despite emails back and forth, we'd missed each other -- he is a busy guy.
Then here I was, being introduced to him at 3am in a bar with next to some Ukrainian and Brazilian models. This wouldn't have happened in Silicon Valley -- namely because there's no such thing as a hip bar that jams until 5am -- or at least one that I know of, or which VCs frequent. And alas, no Ukrainain or Brazilian models.
A couple of days later, I met up with Mark, at his office at H&Q. Mark is pretty plugged in across Asia: We've mentioned his father, Ta-Lin. But his grandfather, on his mother's side, had been the personal secretary for Chiang Kai-Shek, and his uncle started the first English newspaper in Taiwan in the 1960s.
Mark also has a good basis with which to compare Shanghai and other major business areas such as Silicon Valley or New York. He's been in Shanghai for nine months, having previously worked in the H&Q office in SF for four years (though taking most of last year to work full-time for the Kerry presidential campaign), and before that, New York for five years.
And here's what Hsu says about Shanghai: "I can't imagine being in any other city of the world, from a business, social or cultural angle." New York, he says, has become "pretty stable." It still has energy, but is no longer as dynamic as Shanghai. Everyone in New York he knows works for a big investment bank, a multinational, an accounting or law firm. Here, in Shanghai, everything's changing. People circulate, move in and out of new ventures, and all economic fundamentals are growing -- despite temporary "bubbles" here and there in real estate or technology. Shanghai, he said, "brings New York to Silicon Valley in the best way." It has New York's cosmopolitan offerings, but blends that with the entrepreneurialism of Silicon Valley. As for investment potential, the major story in the world is China, "and within China, it's Shanghai," he says.
He points out two major downsides to Shanghai: the relative lack of nature, and a troubled healthcare system. These are not be underestimated.
Sorry to meander here, but it worth noting that Hsu has been politically active (Kerry campaign, etc) because he says he fears the Asian-American community, having attained relative prosperity, has become too politically complacent. Moreover, they need to participate in a dialogue about the relationship with China. China is emerging as the primary threat to U.S. world hegemony, bringing clouds to U.S.-Chinese relations. A growing trade deficit, conflicts over exchange rate policy, and military-foreign relations (i.e., Taiwan or North Korea) are all sore spots. "We're going to see China flex its muscles," Hsu says.
He and his firm are participants at the World Economic Forum, the Council of Foreign Relations and the Pacific Council of International Policy. That same evening, Hsu was headed off for more socializing, this time to celebrate a twin city event (SF-Shanghai) where SF mayor Gavin Newsom and U.S. Senator Diane Feinstein (D-Calif) were visiting the Bund.
China now makes up about 50 to 60 percent of his firm's activity, Hsu said. But like most firms active in China for a while, H&Q has moved up-market. It has raised more and more money to invest, so it needs to find bigger deals to put the money to work. It isn't doing much seed funding, but invests into later-stage companies -- those mature enough to soak up millions of H&Q's dollars.
H&Q owns much of China's Starbucks chain, including the one across from the Great Wall. It has invested in real estate in Shanghai (for example Shanghai Links, the golf course designed by Jack Niklaus), biotech, manufacturing technology, financial services, and branded consumer/media companies. With China's expanding middle-class, and rapid process of deregulation, a lot of these sectors are white hot.
This focus on later-stage deals means, however, a lack of sufficient seed funding, according to people here -- which we'll try to explore in a later post.
That, despite the flood of capital coming in from other sources, namely classic US buyout firms, domestic state-run firms, European firms, hedge funds, and other institutional investors. All of this money means entrepreneurs have the advantage. They can negotiate high valuations, forcing investors to pay big-time in order to play. "There are not a lot of other places in the world to put money in right now," Hsu says of China. "The downside is the valuations. Lots of money chasing late-stage deals."
So Hsu says he's going after the large number of mid-sized companies, many of them family owned or state-affiliated. Many of them are profitable. Notably, though, Hsu says he doesn't like to invest in Chinese companies run by Chinese entrepreneurs with no outside managerial help. He calls these "Chinese Chinese" deals. For anyone questioning this caution, read the unending number of fiascos documented by Clissold and Studwell (referenced below) involving foreigners losing their shirts on China investments -- despite hundreds of years of trying.
Of course, all that is changing now that China has joined the World Trade Organization, and is reforming its economic and financial laws -- grist, perhaps, for a later post. Suffice to say that dozens of U.S. venture firms have shown up over the past two years to exploit what appears to be -- finally -- the China investment dream. If you come here, you will see why.
*The following books are helpful for background on the folly of foreigner investment in China during the mid 1990s, where most lost millions of dollars. They also both contain brief summaries of Pudong's amazing growth.
-- Mr. China, by Tim Clissold. (HarperCollins 2005)
-- The China Dream, by Joe Studwell (First Grove Press, 2003)作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-10 18:26
ZT:经典冷笑话
啊！作者: woiyezi 时间: 05-12-12 13:34
The same problem occured twice!
You should put this joke into other topic.作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-12 14:38
Dear woiyezi:
You are ABSOLUTELY right!!! i will try my best to avoid this, thanks!!!作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-14 19:42
曹操的笑话
曹操“啊――”的一声晕了过去作者: 谷子 时间: 05-12-14 23:20 : Dear Song,thank U very much to bring us lots of laughter.作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-15 06:04
haha, Dear 谷子: you are quie welcome!!作者: 波波 时间: 05-12-15 12:25
I thank Charlie Z. Song too.you are so good!!作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-18 20:30
日本不买账：艺伎不是美国人误解的娼妇
由本讲谈社出版的岩崎纪实版艺伎回忆录，直译为《艺伎峰子的豆蔻年华》，英文版译名为《艺伎，一种活》，这部文学自传主要描写“我”5岁时被迫进入祈园艺伎馆，经过严格训练，15岁成为舞伎，后晋升为祈园有史以来第64个有正式资格的百里挑一的艺伎，连续6年成为业内收入最多的人，成功的同时，“我”又不得不面对作为女人难以想像的修炼之苦，真实再现了京都祈园街的现实生活。岩崎写这本书是想告诉人们：艺伎是日本传统文化的一部分，是女性自立的职业，而不是美国人误解的“娼妇”作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-21 07:13
对不起，耽误您下蛋了
某公共汽车终点站上，停靠着一辆待发的汽车。车上的座位已坐满了人。
这时，坐在车身中门座位上的一位妇女起身向前门售票员处买票。与此同时，中门上来一位女同志，见有空座位就坐下了。那位去买票的妇女返身回来发现自己的座位被别人占了，顿时横眉竖目大声道：“下蛋不勤占窝倒挺快。”
那位坐着的女同志先是一愣，转眼看到她手中拿着的车票，突然象是明白了什么，一边起身让坐，一边道歉：“对不起，耽误您下蛋了。”作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-21 15:15
海外探亲老人们的叹息：做人，难啊
DON'T GET CAUGHT BY THE COLD OR FLU BUG
AS THE COLD AND FLU SEASON APPROACHES, TAKE MEASURES TO HELP KEEP YOURSELF HEALTHY - DRINK FLORIDA ORANGE JUICE! IT BOOSTS THE IMMUNE SYSTEM AND PROMOTES OVERALL HEALTH.
www.floridajuice.com作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-25 09:27
发表于: 12/24/2005 12:48 发表主题: 等候
阿拉听说过一个真的，在唐山大地震中 - 56式 12/22/05 (1)
愿闻其详 /无内容 - squaren 12/22/05 (0)
阿拉喜欢看喜剧，大团圆结尾 - Avivi 12/22/05 (3)
你哭了没？ /无内容 - squaren 12/22/05 (2)
你也一起555555吧，就阿拉一个人555555很没面子 /无内容 - Avivi 12/22/05 (1)
好吧，那俺5一下好了 - squaren 12/22/05 (0)作者: Kathy 时间: 05-12-26 13:28
A tearful story...作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-26 18:48
my tears seems more...作者: zhongshi 时间: 05-12-26 20:28
提示: 作者被禁止或删除 内容自动屏蔽作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-26 21:16
surely, go right head, please!!!
i am glad to be any help!!!作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-27 14:45
Dear zhongshi416:
same to you!!!
everybody has his/her own problem, just take me for example, i got a BIG PROBLEM....sleep!!!!
it's 1:30am now, i can't sleep!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i have to work today!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and i lost my glasses!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!WHERE????I DON' KNOW!!!! I DON'T REMEMBER!!!!!!!!!!!
sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh......................................................................................作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-27 14:45
TMD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 05-12-28 19:46
一个美国人在中国中央电视台工作的感受
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诗我是在弯曲的岁月里无声的歌唱，是生命航程中记忆的锚点。
我把锚落在这里， 却希望歌声如涟漪般的电波触及你的心岸。作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 06-1-2 16:22
The Very First Day of 2006 neubc 今天 00:14
是在朋友，游戏，和酒中度过的，还大白天的睡了一个长觉。
尽管《哭泣的拳头》带给我的失落远远大于享受，但我依然要向它稽首敬礼，感谢它在中国影片中男人一片柔弱之气的时候，提供了诠释男人意义的更好的注解——刚强。
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男性发言：男人说男人!。作者: Charlie Z. Song 时间: 06-1-20 05:43
好莱坞仍是男性天下：女性难立足 记者： 希拉德
华盛顿
Jan 19, 2006
我一直觉着，partnership is a strong commitment。因为但凡是在乎牌的人，都不可能真的完全不在乎输赢。输是两个人一起输，赢是两个人一起赢。一旦安心坐下，眼看着就得荣辱与共，输赢共享。这么一桩要紧的事体，怎么可能轻描淡写就开始了——然后，也许没声没息儿地就结束了？一个人的错误，两个人来承担。这里面没点“义气”是活不下去的：“我认了你是我的partner，所以我甘心承担你的错误，就象你甘心承担我的。”
: Dear Song,thank U very much to bring us lots of laughter.